Love affirmations are a perfect way to “tune yourself in” to the goal of attracting romance and love into your life. This is because affirmations have the power to change your habitual inner dialogue and to set up brain wave patterns which will give you that “good vibe” that you feel when you’re around certain people. Have you ever had that feeling and just wanted to be around someone? If so, you’ll be relieved to know that using positive affirmations can actually help you to develop that vibe…they may even hold the key to attracting your soul mate.
If you get excited just imagining this idea, then you’ll want to develop your own simple and effective love affirmations.
First, Get Specific
Before you begin writing your love affirmations for attracting your soul mate, you have to get specific about two things:
1) The kind of person you want to attract
2) The kind of person you must become to attract them
Too often, people create positive affirmations about something that they want, but never bother making the changes in themselves that are required in order to get and keep what they want. This is especially important when it comes to your close relationships. The first thing you need to do is make a list of specific characteristics that you’re looking for in a person, and then ask yourself this question:
Who would I have to become in order to attract this type of person and build a meaningful relationship with them? The answer to this question is the foundation upon which you’re going to build your love affirmations…
Second, Build Your Affirmations
Your positive affirmations for attracting your soul mate need to have four things in common: they need to be in the first person; in present tense; focused on the characteristics you’re looking for; and most importantly, focused on the characteristics you’re going to build in order to attract the love of your life.
For example, if you’re looking for someone who is confident and ambitious, your love affirmations might look like this:
”As a confident and ambitious man, I naturally attract confident and ambitious women into my life.”
“My confidence and assertiveness attracts confident and assertive women.”
“I attract ambitious women because I’m an ambitious man.”
Now, notice that each one of these love affirmations has four things in common:
1) They’re all in the present tense
2) They’re all in the first person
3) They all involve the characteristics you’re looking for a date
4) They all involve the characteristics you need to attract them
Now, in case you’re thinking that you are lying to yourself in stating such things, here’s something important to note about how affirmations work: love affirmations, like any other affirmations, work to condition your subconscious mind to believe the things that you are consistently telling it.
Once these beliefs become crystallized, they’ll begin to influence your actions and beliefs will become a reality. This is because of a psychological principle known as cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is the discomfort which a person feels when their beliefs and their actions are not aligned. This discomfort causes a person to change their actions in order to make them consistent with their beliefs.
And that’s accomplished through the final step…
Third, Rehearse Your Positive Affirmations
Once you have your positive love affirmations written, verbally rehearse them in front of the mirror in the morning and in the evening. This is where the magic really starts happening…and it will take about 21 days for things to really pick up momentum. What you’ll start to notice is that your creative imagination, your subconscious mind and your beliefs will begin lining up the pieces of your life which are necessary for you to start attracting your soul mate.