Okay, here’s a straight up question for you: how many times have you gotten fed up and given up on the cheesy online dating tips for men like: “have a good profile, mention something from her profile, ask her something that she can reply to…blah, blah, blah…”
Did you know that over 90% of men give up on online dating with the first three months because of lack of results? So if you feel that you’re clueless on how to get a girlfriend online, it might comfort you to know that MOST men are feeling this way.
But, you’re probably still wondering if there are any online dating tips that you can actually count on to get the results. Here are three you can start using right away…
Don’t Date Online
Gasp! Okay, here you are wondering how to get a girlfriend by online dating, and I’m telling you not to do it. Well… not exactly. You see, online dating is a great way to MEET women, but if you want to know how to get a girlfriend and build a meaningful relationship…you have to get the interaction off-line as soon as possible.
Most online dating tips simply tell you how to get someone to respond to your e-mail and how to communicate by email. But have you ever built a great relationship by e-mail or phone and found that there was nothing there in person? What a waste of time!
Not to mention that there are actually women who post inaccurate pictures or who want to chat online, but will flake out when it comes to meeting in person. So don’t waste your time dating online, simply use it as a place to meet her and get to know her the old fashioned way…
Timing Counts…a Lot
This is probably one of the most valuable online dating tips for men that you’ll ever learn: send all of your e-mails on Saturday and Sunday morning. Sure, timing isn’t that big of a deal for a man because we are actions and results oriented. But women are a completely different story. They’re all about the process by which a man meets, pursues and seduces them.
Most women dating online get a LOT of emails, and they’re too busy to answer them during the week… not to mention that they’re distracted. But most single women go out on Friday and Saturday nights hoping to meet a man. When they don’t, they get up frustrated and check their emails to see what their options are…and there’s your email…how convenient!
And your final online dating tip…
The Long and Short of Emailing
Three basic tools of e-mailing women on dating sites: less than 100 words (too much and she either won’t read it will think that you have nothing better to do with your time), send a follow up if she doesn’t email back (persistence pays off), and position yourself as a man of value.
Now in relation to this last rule, the key is to show an equal amount of interest and disinterest. In other words, it’s not that big of a deal if she doesn’t write you back. This might sound counterproductive, but if a woman perceives that you aren’t desperate to hear from her she’ll automatically assume that you have a higher social value than most of the men contacting her.
So get back in the game, and put these to work right away.
With these online dating tips in your tool box, you’ll have an unfair advantage over the other chumps out there, and more quality women in your life… and you don’t even have to leave your house to meet them.